Swinger's Club First Time Experience

By Jess Batty

Being a Content Creator, I have always been curious about the swinging and non monogamous lifestyle and what it would be like at a swingers club.

But, up until recently, I had never really had an opportunity to go to one or try the scene out.

But that all changed when i was invited to a a event by a good friend who has been in the lifestyle for 20 years

I attended my first swingers event after a promotional shoot with Swingathon recently, and was invited to the club after the event.

I was really worried about attending, as I wouldn’t class myself as a swinger or be included in the lifestyle.

I have friends who are in the lifestyle and have always been intrigued but had never attended anything before.

But I can honestly say I had the most amazing night of my life, I really got the chance to let my hair down.

 I was so worried I would be judged as an outsider, but at no point did I feel judged for being there, on my body or what I was wearing.

Everyone was so friendly and I genuinely felt at home. It was brilliant as I’m 28 and I was with people my own age and some who are 40+ but it was like i had known them my entire life.

I felt so comfortable and at ease. I wouldn’t say I am a fully committed swinger so to speak as everything I do without my husband is on camera for work, but the community and the group of people I met and spent time with genuinely changed my perspective on the community as a whole.

I have never thought anything bad about the community, i just didnt fully understand the lifestyle.

I was asking questions and everyone was really helpful in helping me understand the world and so welcoming.

I had the best night i had had in a long time. If I was invited to a swingers event again I absolutely would go. I have made new friends with people i would never have normally met. You meet all kinds of wonderful people in this lifestyle form many different different backgrounds and all 22 walks of life but none of that mattered as you are welcomed as an equal.

The social experience for me was incredible and I would 100% encourage anyone who is interested or intrigued by the lifestyle to attend, for me it was a really great experience and if I could relive that whole day I absolutely would